What Do I Message? How to Respond to a Super Like on Tinder

How to respond to a super like on tinder

You’ve undoubtedly been Super Liked a few times if you’ve been on Tinder for a long. A blue star indicates that someone is highly interested in you—they didn’t just like you, they Super Liked you! While it’s nice, it might be difficult to come up with a topic of discussion following a Super Like. Continue reading to find out how to send a message to your Super Liker and start a discussion.

Swipe left if you aren’t interested.

You’re not compelled to swipe right after receiving a Super Like. If you look at the person’s profile and decide you don’t like them, swipe left and send them on their way. They’ll receive a new Super Like tomorrow, and in a few hours, they won’t even remember your profile.

• Even if they’ve Super Liked you, people aren’t alerted if you left swipe them.

Just say “hey.”

Start a chat as you would ordinarily. You may put a bit less effort into your message than normal if you want to keep things casual. To start a discussion, just send them a “hello” or “hey, what’s up?” They may then take the lead and discuss anything they liked about your profile.

• If you don’t want to merely say “Hello,” try sending a hilarious gif instead.

Tell them thank you.

After all, a Super Like is rather flattering. You don’t have to make a big deal out of it, but you may say something like, “Hey, thanks for the Super Like!” before moving on with your chat. It demonstrates that you were aware of the praise and that you value it

• Messages like “OMG, why would a lovely lady like you Super Like someone like me???” should be avoided. They seem desperate, and they won’t get you off to a good start.

Ask them how their day is going.

It’s a simple and lovely way to start a discussion. They’re probably willing to chat about anything you want since they already Super Liked you. Start a casual discussion between you and your partner by asking an open-ended inquiry.

• “Hey, how’s your day been?” or “Hi, how’s your day going?” are good examples.

Talk about something on their profile.

Look through their photos and bio for something to speak about. They definitely enjoy something about your profile since they Super Liked you—maybe you have something in common, like interests or the city you grew up in. Send a greeting like this:

• “What’s that, you grew up in Hawaii as well? I was born there and stayed there until I was five years old.”
• “Have you been rock climbing for a long time?”
• “Did you like your time in Florida as a student?”

Get their opinion on something.

Pretend you need their help with a silly dispute. This is a fantastic way to show off your sense of humour while also proving that their Super Like selection was correct. Alternatively, look at their profile to get their take on something true. Consider the following:

• “I urgently need your input! Is a hot dog considered a sandwich?”
• “My roommate and I are debating whether a PopTart is a calzone, and I’d need your opinion.”
• “It’s fantastic that you can snowboard! I believe I know the answer, but which is preferable: snowboarding or skiing?”

Give them a compliment.

Take a look at their profile and find anything you like. It might be anything from their biography, images, or something they like doing in their spare time. Send them a note complementing it to get the ball rolling on a pleasant chat.

• For instance, you may remark, “That image of you at the beach is fantastic. You look fantastic!”
• Alternatively, “I laughed out loud when I read your profile. Are you as amusing in real life?”

Chat with them like a regular match.

Super Likes are flattering, but they don’t make a significant difference. It feels fantastic to get a Super Like, but you don’t have to put this person on a pedestal or bend over yourself for them. Once you’ve said hello, continue conversing with them as if they were anybody else. Allow the discussion to flow freely in order to develop a genuine bond with this individual.